Tuesday, August 9, 2011

1000 Gifts: Texas Trip

I'm a day late for Multitude Monday, but when you're out of your normal routine the days all seem to run together, so I'm using that as my excuse. A week ago the kids, dog, and I drove down to Lake Jackson, Texas, a town south of Houston near the gulf coast.

The purpose of the trip was to help my dad move out of the house he's owned for about 30 years. I was in the third grade when we moved from Michigan to Texas, so this house holds many, many memories for me. Dad has bought a smaller house in Colorado, just nine doors down from my sister's house, so this will probably be the last time I ever visit Lake Jackson or see this house. Who knows maybe I'll go to a high school reunion someday (haven't been to one yet), but emotionally this is good-bye.

Although I've been working hard for the last week, we've had a little time for play too. God gives us many gifts sprinkled amongst the craziness.

76. A safe trip with well-behaved kids and dog.

77. A son who didn't mind spending most of his 12th birthday in the car. Maybe it was because he got to eat things like this.

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78. One last time to see the house in which I spent most of my growing-up years.

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79. Seeing my mom's touches everywhere.

80. Finding little remnants of my childhood.

81. Showing the kids my first decorating craft project (and then promptly throwing it in the trash).

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82. The pool. It served me well during my high school and college years and now it's keeping my kids busy while I work. I'm also thankful that the kids all know how to swim and Anna is old enough to supervise.

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83. My dad's dogs. They provide endless entertainment as they jump into the pool, and they are welcoming to my big black lab.

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84. A short visit from my sister. It was nice to catch up and to have an extra set of hands.

85. Getting to take home some new things. I'm trying hard not to add to my own clutter problem, but I've found some real treasures.

86. My dad's next-door-neighbors. There simply are not better neighbors than Billie and Bruce and their baby daughter Zoe. They moved here after my sister and I were out of the house, and have been like family to my dad. And this week they have practically adopted Grace. I hardly saw her all weekend. Grace has loved the attention.

87. The stories my kids are hearing as we sort and remember.

88. An early morning walk on the beach with my 13-year-old daughter.

89. Seeing flamingos hanging out in a marsh. Of course, I forgot to bring the camera that morning. But I remembered it when we had an evening picnic at the beach, so you get seagull shots instead.

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90. Playing in the waves like I did when I was a kid.


Thursday, August 4, 2011

Summer Vacation

Sorry to be a little scarce on the blog. We've been doing a little "this and that" -- the "this" is swim team and the "that" is track. Or maybe it's the other way around. Regardless, that's pretty much all we've done all summer until this week.

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All three kids were on a summer swim team. It's a fun atmosphere that's competitive, but not as competitive as year-round swim team. Ryne and Grace especially flourish on this team. Grace's big accomplishment of the season was qualifying for the conference meet in three strokes: butterfly (her favorite), backstroke, and freestyle. It was her first time to swim at the conference meet and she was one swimmer shy of making it to the finals in butterfly.

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Summer swim team is great for kids like Ryne who love to swim, but aren't going to be the next Michael Phelps. Ryne had a great season, performing his first flip turns in a meet and finally learning how to dive. The proper diving technique mostly happened at practice -- meets looked more like this.

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Bless his heart, I love that he enjoys swim team so much and he doesn't mind being last or close to it every event.

Anna did summer swim too, but mostly just to hang out with her friends at the meets. She was plenty busy however with two other activities: long course swim season with her year-round team and summer track with a club team. Anna's been a little discouraged with swim team this year, because she can't seem to break into the top group of swimmers. We're told her technique is excellent; she just needs to be patient and wait for her body to develop more and become stronger. I think she's tired of waiting. Her spring track season went very well, and she started wondering if she might be better off concentrating on track. She decided to give club track a try for the summer, intending to choose between the two sports at the end of the summer. It was a very rough transition as we tried to figure out how the whole club track scene operates. She also had two foot injuries to deal with. But by the end of the season things started getting better and she qualified to compete at the U.S. Track and Field Junior Olympics in the 800 meter run, and she was later added to the 4 x 800 relay.

We headed to Wichita, Kansas for the meet, joining athletes from all over the country. The level of competition was incredible. We saw 10 year-olds with college level times. We knew going in that we were there for the experience this year, and Anna was okay with that. It was neat just to be there.

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Looking at the picture of the stadium, it doesn't look like there are many people there. This was the day of Anna's relay, before many of the athletes had arrived, but the bigger reason for lack of people in the stands was this.

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Um, it was a little hot outside. The official temperature for the day of Anna's relay event was 111 degrees. I never heard the official temperature from the day of her individual event, but it felt just as hot. The nice thing was that they had misting stations everywhere and they hosed down the runners as they made their way around the track. Any guesses which member of our family had to be treated by medical personnel? That would be me. I was surviving the heat about as well as anyone until I stood in line with Anna to buy her a meet t-shirt. They were ironing on the decals there at the booth and the fumes and heat caused me to get very light-headed. We got to the front of the line and ordered her shirt, but then the guy started making small talk and everything started spinning for me. I had to shove my wallet at Anna and run to a wall to lean against. The medical volunteers rushed over and started misting me with water. I was fine a few minutes later, but very embarrassed.

So where are the pictures of our track star? Remember, she's thirteen. She is not going to let me post pictures of her dripping in sweat. I figured I could at least get a shot of her mentally preparing for her race.

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Maybe not. I'll say it again: she's thirteen.

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Oh look, she will let me get a shot of what she's listening to. Toby Mac is always a pre-race favorite.

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To escape the heat most people stayed under the bleachers until it was time for their event. This team next to us really knew how to relax.

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After two days at the track meet, we quickly headed back home because Anna had a swim meet the next morning! Although she only went to about half the swim practices she normally would in a summer and didn't go to many meets (so she could focus on track), she managed to qualify for our area's Division 1 meet. In the past she's always missed qualifying for this meet by the smallest of margins, so she really wanted to go. Overall, she did okay. Dropped a couple of seconds in one event, stayed about the same in a couple of others. Not bad considering how much she'd been through already. She did get to be part of a freestyle relay that broke a team record, so that was fun.

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It was a busy summer, that's for sure. And Anna isn't any closer to making a decision between swim and track, so we'll continue to juggle both for a little longer. The nice thing about both sports is that we can decide how much we want to do without negatively impacting the team like a soccer or baseball player would.

Of course summer is not over yet, so you'd think we'd be relaxing. That was the plan, but it's funny how things rarely work out as planned. I started this week by making a 12 hour road trip with three kids and a hundred pound dog. I'll let you know in my next post where I am and what I'm doing. And if I'm in a good mood I'll share some unbelievable pictures with you!

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Five Books that Changed Who I Am

I've been tagged! Amy of Veritas at Home has invited me to participate in a meme, reflecting on the "Five Books that Changed Who I Am." I've read some pretty good books over the years, but to have a book change you is indeed special. In her list Amy wisely put the Bible "in a category all by itself, off the list," so I am going to do the same. Clearly, some of the books on my list wouldn't be there if I hadn't already been changed by God's Word.

Here is my list, in no particular order:

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Goodnight Moon

Really? After much debate, I decided to include Margaret Wise Brown's children's classic on my list because it is the first book I remember reading, or rather having been read to me. My mom took time to read to me as a child, and when I was in my early twenties and needed to buy a baby gift for a friend for the first time, Goodnight Moon was the first baby necessity I thought of. I also bought a copy for myself, even though it was another year before I first got pregnant. This book symbolizes my love of reading to my children, one of the defining elements of my parenting years.


The Out-of-Sync Child

This book makes the list, not so much for the content (although it is a very helpful book), but because it was the book that made me realize we were about to face the struggle of our life. The book is about coping with sensory processing disorder, and I originally bought it to help me understand Anna better. A mom at Vacation Bible School told me about her daughter's extreme sensory issues, and I recognized that Anna also experienced some of these challenges, although on a much smaller scale. The mom recommended this book, so I quickly purchased it and . . . let it sit on the shelf for the next couple of years. But after Ryne's second birthday, when we were really struggling with his behavior, something prompted me to finally pick this book up. As I read, I was amazed at how perfectly the author described some of Ryne's issues. I knew it wasn't the whole story, but I finally had some information to take to my doctor to back up my claims that something was not right with our son. The Out-of-Sync Child by Carol Kranowitz started our autism adventure, and in effect lead me to a never-ending line of life-changing books as we continually sought new ways to help Ryne.


The Well-Trained Mind

I've already seen this book on a few lists from this meme, testifying to the impact Susan Wise Bauer and Jessie Wise have had on the homeschooling community. Ryne and Anna were happily enjoying attending a Christian school, when I first found The Well-Trained Mind at the library. Marc and I thought it was time to research homeschooling as a back-up plan in case Christian school didn't work out for Ryne. As I read the book, however, I was sold on the idea of classical homeschooling -- not as a back-up plan, but as the best plan for us. And not just for Ryne, but for all our children. Talk about life changing! We didn't even wait until the end of the school year to pull the kids out of school.


The Five Points of Calvinism

The night I met Marc we talked quite a bit about faith issues, including our church background. Marc found out I had grown up Catholic and I found out he had grown up Reformed. I had never heard of the term and my confusion grew even deeper every time he tried to explain it to me. All I knew was that he was passionate about it and I loved him and his family, so it must be okay. It wasn't that Marc was doing a poor job of explaining doctrine to me. The main reason I had trouble wrapping my head around it was because I was so new to the Bible in general. A decade of attending Bible Study Fellowship fixed that. In fact, I learned so much in my years at BSF that I was starting to become prideful of my knowledge. That all changed when our ladies Bible study at church decided to read The Five Points of Calvinism by Edwin Palmer that had been recommended by our pastor. Oh, how God opened my eyes with that book! I finally began to grasp just how amazing God's grace really is, and realized how little I really knew. I'm sure there are many fine books on reformed doctrine that could have been just as life-changing, but this little volume is what God used to take my faith deeper. And I'm excited that there is still so much for Him to teach me.


Through Gates of Splendor

It must be the Charlotte Mason tendencies in me (living books as opposed to dry textbooks), but usually missionary stories have had a far greater impact on my spiritual growth than Christian non-fiction books. And I couldn't have picked a better missionary biography to start with than Elisabeth Elliot's Through Gates of Splendor, the story of her husband and four other missionaries who were killed trying to minister to the Auca Indians in Ecuador. Her other books about Jim Elliot and her own experiences in Ecuador are just as impactful. I may never serve Christ in a foreign mission field, but I can learn much from these great heroes of the faith. Incidentally, closely similar in style to a missionary biography is one of my favorite books of all time that I wrote about here -- I won't mention it by name since I'm trying really hard to keep my list to five books!


Okay, now it's your turn! The rules of the meme say to (1) tag between three to five people, (2) link back to this post, (3) call the post "Five Books that Changed Who I Am," and (4) enjoy!

I'm tagging the following bloggers, but anyone is welcome to join the fun (just leave a link to your post in the comments):

Dawn of Olive Plants -- I tag her hesitantly because I almost always buy everything she recommends. Be easy on my budget, Dawn!

Melanie of Graceful Ornaments -- Although I'm not sure a meme suits the purpose of her blog, I admire her heart for the Lord and am eager to see her book list.

Heather of Goggles and Grace -- This is a shameless attempt to pull her out of blogging hibernation. I miss your gratitude journal and beautiful pictures, dear. : )

Andrea of Heritage Academy -- I imagine life is a bit busy with a new baby, but I miss you too, Andrea.

Thank you, Amy, for tagging me!